10 Signs Of A Bad Relationship You Should Never, Ever Tolerate

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10 Signs Of A Bad Relationship You Should Never, Ever Tolerate Bad relationships affect far more than just your love life They can make your entire life worse. Everything from your friendships to your career can suffer if you’re in a toxic relationship. Knowing the signs of one is a very powerful way you can take back control and prevent everything from going downhill. Signs of a bad relationship to keep a lookout for Nobody wants to be with someone who’s bad for them. We all want that incredible, fun love story we see all over social media. While those may not be completely accurate, they’re great goals to shoot for. Wanting a healthy relationship is important. Recognizing that you’re not in one is also very valuable. If you truly want to know if your relationship is bad and unhealthy for both of you, here are the glaring signs of a bad relationship to watch out for. #1 Lack of communication. When you don’t talk to each other or worse, you CAN’T talk to each other, som...
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10 most common reasons for divorce.

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10 most common reasons for divorce.

#1 Infidelity

This is one of the most common causes of why people cheat aren’t as cut and dry as our anger may lead us to believe.
#2. Money
According to several studies and divorce statistics, a “final straw” reason for divorce is a lack of financial compatibility and money mistakes in marriage.
#3. Lack of communication

Communication is crucial in marriage and not being able to communicate effectively quickly leads to resentment and frustration for both, impacting all aspects of a marriage.

On the other hand, good communication is the foundation of a strong marriage.
#4. Constant arguing
Many find it hard to see the other person’s point of view, which leads to a lot of arguments without ever coming to a resolution, which can ultimately be a cause of divorce.

#5. Weight gain9
In some cases a significant amount of weight gain causes the other spouse to become less physically attracted while for others, weight gain takes a toll on their self-esteem, which trickles into issues with intimacy and can even become a cause of divorce.

#6. Unrealistic expectations

These expectations can put a lot of strain on the other person, leaving you feeling let down and setting your spouse up for failure.

Wrong expectation setting can become one of the main reasons for divorce.

#7. Lack of intimacy
Not feeling connected to your partner can quickly ruin a marriage because it leaves couples feeling as though they’re living with a stranger or more like roommates than spouses.

This can be from a lack of physical or emotional intimacy and isn’t always about sex.

Ignoring your partner’s sexual needs is being called the number one cause of divorce in recent times.
#8 ABUSE
If there is a pattern of domestic abuse in a marriage, that’s certainly a valid reason to walk away from your marriage.

Many people think that abuse is only physical, but emotional and financial abuse are also quite common. Yelling, neglect, constant displays of anger, withholding money, vulgar comments, and other negative
#9 PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
Growing apart in your marriage due to changes in you or your spouse’s physical appearance may sound shallow, superficial, and unfair. But it is a real reason why marriages end.

Men and women want attractive spouses, and when one or the other gains a significant amount of weight, it can be a real turn-off.

Conversely, when one spouse loses a lot of weight, it can also have dramatic changes in a relationship. A spouse can become more attractive to others, perhaps for the first time in their lives.

These changes in physical appearance can impact your level of intimacy, self-esteem, and many other parts of your life, including your health. That can also create a separate set of challenges for a marriage, as well.

#10 GETTING MARRIED FOR THE WRONG REASONS

Some people who get married have unreasonable expectations about what marriage should be about, and they wind up bitterly disappointed when the fairy tale does not match up with reality.

Living “happily ever after” requires constant work. But there is a difference between putting in the work and putting on the pressure with your spouse to make your marriage all that it can be. If there is a constant tension between you, sooner or later, cracks in your relationship will appear, and your marriage will be on the rocks before you know it.

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